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Originally Posted by Angela  When you feel pain and you say, "I shouldn't be feeling this pain," you are arguing with reality. Reality doesn't care about your shoulds. That pain is not going to go away because you say you shouldn't feel it. In fact, the more you *should* it, the more tenaciously it's likely to hurt you.
If you feel pain and you say, "I should feel this pain because I am feeling this pain," then you are accepting the reality of your moment -- you're no longer resisting it. |
"I should feel this pain because I
am feeling this pain" is also "shoulding" though.
To me, saying that something should be like how it is means that the current situation is right and I approve it. Is it right that people get murdered?
I guess it'd be better if I stick with my own pain for now, eh?
