I haven't read all the posts other than the original one so I appologize if this has already been said. Why is your self worth tied up in what she does or doesn't do? Why does it affect YOU when SHE doesn't graduate? I understand there is a time aspect to it yet that time cannot be retrieved. So make the best of the situation and realize that you cannot change your sister. She will have to do that herself. Make the best of your remaining time and don't beat yourself up. |