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Originally Posted by mlc82  The not caring if they check out other guys part has always come kind of naturally- I'm sure as hell not going to stop checking out other women, and yet I also know I wouldn't actually cheat with any of them, it's just fun to look. I guess I've always just assumed whoever I dated felt the same way. |
That's cool. I am kind of the opposite in that I don't really look much anyway, and when I'm in a relationship feel even less compelled to do so. And I thought other people would be the same way...but most aren't
. I'm really working on it. I used to get insecure about that more, and even didn't want my bf going to Hooters or such. Man that was just crazy! I'm still working on the insecurity I feel, but I am no longer trying to stop him from any of that kind of stuff. And he makes a point of not
obviously looking when we're together.
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Originally Posted by mlc82 The time I can think of when I really did feel raging jealousy was when I thought a previous girlfriend of mine WAS cheating on me, needless to say we broke up very soon after that......I'm fairly certain I would have just about killed the guy. |
I'm glad it didn't come to that!!