much thanks for the replies guys.
Hmm peace and love seems to be getting more and more common during meditation now, but I just don't seem to be getting intuitive answers to my questions...I also tried searching for answers to other questions like finances, but also nothing. With the relationship, it was over a month ago and I'm fighting with myself whether I should try to win her back, and if so how I should go about it.
thanks for all your help