Originally Posted by mlc82
I work at a gym, and get to see hot women all day, and I love it- doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on my girlfriend with any of them though, and I trust that in a reverse role she'd also enjoy the eye candy but not cheat on me. If she did, then she simply wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore- it would be upsetting, but the world wouldn't end.
That's a really healthy attitude to have. Does it come naturally to you or have you had to cultivate it? I mean, were you once jealous or fearful of the implications of your girlfriend looking around or admiring other guys, or have you always felt the same as you do now?