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Originally Posted by Angela  It sounds like you are still thinking that acceptance and condoning are the same thing. |
You're right. I get the impression that for example if my SO would cheat at me, it's me whose fault it is.
Or when someone is un-nice to me.
She should be nice to me. I should be nice to her? Or I should be nice to myself? I could be nice to her, but why should I be nice to myself? How do I know when it's right to be nice to myself?
I'm kinda reluctant to turn the statement around so that it "favours" me. Being good to myself is so not me.
