Originally Posted by JSB
Not looking because it is good manners not to look makes sense to me; not looking because out of fear of judgement/disapproval is probably not a healthy mindset.
I've decided that I'll take the not looking (while in her presense) out of respect for her. But now, here's a different issue that I wonder about. When in public, and you notice some nice looking females walking around and you look or stare, which of these comes into play, or should come into play? I mean, though they are beautiful, most females dont like being looked at. This could be a limiting belief I have, but I find myself not looking for fear of being judged as a pervert by people nearby and the females I stare at.