Hello, Ms. Pavlina here.
Sometimes deceased spirits come through very easily for me and sometimes they don't. If you're open to the psychic reading which will help you with your own life in addition to wanting to connect with your daughter, then go ahead and sign up for a reading.
But if you really want to connect with her you may need to book a reading with more than one medium until a connection is made. Also be sure you never ever tell a medium anything about your daughter or the circumstances surrounding her death. it's vital for validation purposes not to say who you are looking to connect with. You must let the medium do the work. Because of all that you've already said here what if I brought her through and told you, "Yeah, she's telling me she lost both her legs before her death." Well I already know that so it's not validation.
This is a big caution to everyone who wants a reading with me. Do not tell me in advance anything about any deceased person you want to connect with. Let me pick that info up myself.