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Originally Posted by snowleopard  i understand about what you all said, i still visualize us meeting at the airport, embracing,etc....but how do i NOT focus on the "lack" of him in my life?
Its so very difficult. I think about him every day,all day, its terrible. I try to be positive...but how do i do htat...
is it better NOT to do the IM....try to forget him? Then how would i have the chance to be with him again...a little confused....i SO want it to work out, i jsut dont know what is best...
maybe i am subconciously thinking about the lack of him, so thats what i get more of....
look forward to hearing what you all have to say.... |
They say the most important thing is not so much the visualisation, but how you feel. If you feel terrible, and think about meeting him at the airport, then you are pretty much saying you DON'T want to see him at the airport.
I'm not sure how to get over this negative thinking (seeing as I'm still in it sometimes) but what is working for me is to forget LOA, forget him, and work on fixing what caused the problems in the first place. Work on doing other things that make you happy (steve's main site should have great articles on this) and then you'll be happy. And I feel that once you have done that, and you have made the changes in your life to get a new man, then someone who satisfies your requirements will materialise, even if it's not him.