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Originally Posted by Angela  .... or, interrupt the pattern. |
I suggested 'accept' or 'get out' which I think says for itself what I think the best course of action should be. No-one should have the threat of heartache hanging over them indefinitely.
Angela is right in that you should look to break the pattern if you really want to be with this person. The situation is far more complex than having just two options as my response intimated. However, you can personally only do so much. You are also relying on someone else changing - your fiance - and your personal power to do that is not guaranteed and limited at best.
Whatever path you take I wish you all the best.