Well, Paul McKenna sure has a lot of charisma!
I think there's more involved in having charisma, things like:
* Generously listening
* Being a dancer within your conversations -- flexible, light, graceful, and fluid.
* Really Being With the person you're being with.
* Generating for that person that there's nothing in the world more interesting in that moment. Leaving her feeling that she is profoundly fascinating.
* Generating freedom, love, and joy in all of your conversations. Yup, all of 'em.