I've found that when I become nervous about the eye contact...it's because my focus is on me...rather than them. So if I shift to really paying attention to what they're saying...I stop worrying about the eyes so much.
Looking into people's eyes is an art that takes time and sensitivity to develop. Not so much as to make them feel intruded upon, yet just enough so that they feel they're being seen.
another on of life's many dances...
Pam
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