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Originally Posted by Dan.Linehan These things, these people put me into a horrible place emotionally. I want them to wake up and to stop causing so much pain and suffering. But it's been years and they never seem to wake up. |
Hey Dan,
first I'd like to say that I can understand you and that I feel for you. When I see horrible things, like spanish huntsmen hanging their dogs when they don't need them anymore, I must admit that I have a hard time loving them too.
I've found a view on this that I find very helpful in that matter. I see it as a vibrational state. I can feel waves around people and some feel like an ugly storm when I'm next to them. Others feel very harmonious.
Love is not a feeling for me, it's a powerful harmonious vibrational state. The feeling is the result of love, not love itself. When I love someone, I send some of these powerful harmonious waves to them. I believe that we are all connected and communicating over such waves, so when I think of someone, I'm sure they somehow "get" my vibrations, which then influence theirs.
For me those people causing pain and suffering are in a horrible state of disharmony themselves and that's what leads to their disconnected actions. Through these actions, they create even more disharmony in the world. I see it within myself too, when I'm being disharmonious, I propagate disharmony too, through my actions and also just through the atmosphere I generate around myself.
When you say they put you in a horrible emotional state, it's their disharmonious vibrations influencing you and making your vibrations less harmonious too. So not only do you feel bad, you also radiate disharmonious vibes, thus contribute to non-harmony in the whole system (and to the very things you find horrible).
So to counter that, when I'm confronted with such horrible things, I work on putting myself in the most harmonious state I'm possibly able to achieve (with meditation, kinesiology, EFT if necessary, chakra cleansing...), and then when I'm feeling very peaceful and loving I send these powerful, harmonious love vibes out to them, in order to harmonize their vibrational chaos, and to myself, in order to harmonize mine, and then to everybody else.
I'm sure "evil" can be healed with love, because it's all a matter of vibrations.
My (naive?) take on this. Not saying that I always succeed in doing so