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and sometimes I would get what I was asking for and alot of times I didn't.
It's not that I didn't believe in LOA, I do so very much - trust me. My problem is that I tend to focus on the negative alot, I have been practicing focusing on the positive but even that didn't work because I would only consider it practice and not employ it full-time.

What I finally asked for is clarity. The clarity to make the right decisions, the clarity to stand back and not respond when in an argument, the clarity to know when to get involved, the clarity to realize that I'm a good person and I will get the good things I want in life, the clarity to understand why people behave the way they do sometimes and the clarity to know that sometimes things take time.

Clarity is an awesome thing to ask for. My mind was filled with alot of confusing thoughts and it was hard to make decisions when dealing with all that conflict. I have clarity now to know that I control my actions & thoughts and no one else's and there is alot of comfort in knowing that. Clarity to let go of the past & focus on the present, clarity to realize that I have alot of self-worth and should love myself because the kind of person I am is awesome. Clarity to know that whatever I want in life is achievable, I just needed to realize that if I believe in it, it can happen.

Once you achieve clarity, you start to realize how LOA really works and instead of feverishly thinking about every IM you want to put into effect, you take a laid back approach and determine what are needs and what are wants because there is a huge difference between the two.

If you want to ask for something, if you want LOA to bring you something, start with clarity of thought.