Perhaps you're too conscious that you need to look into people's eyes when talking to them? I realised that when one is too aware of certain thing, they tend to exert unwanted pressure on it, and hence the tendency to flub or get uncomfortable shoots up.
Why not remove that from your mind, and just tell yourself to relax, enjoy the person's company and be a good listener. While you are only concentrated in listening, you may actually be having that focused gaze on the person without you realising it!
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