Mm...
Perhaps that's where I've been going wrong with advice, it's advice in the format of debate.
My message was a suggestion that the OP shouldn't get rid of the friendship immediently without at least allowing the relationship to try adapt to the changes. Who knows? Maybe it'll work.
Ultimately it's the OP decision whether they want to make it work.
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Funny. If you changed the word friend to aqaintance, I wouldn't have minded, even agreed with comments. Perhaps it's because my idea of friendship is vastly different. I don't know.
I'm the sort of person who... once trust someone, it'd take something drastic to destroy that bond. So the idea of leaving of a best friend even, due to negativity seems insane.
My bad for:
a) Applying my values and definition of friendship onto others, but really I was only trying to show an alternative view... of friendship.
b) Making the assumption that the negativity was something small that could be patched up.
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Anyway Interesting
Thanks Micheal. There was some things I didn't realise I was doing but you've pretty much open it up.
I feel so silly for not realising that it was 1.5 years ago...
Was more focused on the content ^^'