How to love these guys ?
Hard question, the first answer I think lies in understanding. Understand who they are and how they came to such beliefs.
I read in a book this analogy about people and what they project to the world :
At their core, every person is like a diamond. But their fears, cowardice, wrong beliefs etc. covers this diamond with a nice piece of stinky sh#t.
In order for society not to see this sh#t, they cover it with glowing paint so they seem socially acceptable, and they project their fears onto others, turning part of the population into evil creatures.
Now in order to love them, we have to recognize the stinky sh"t and not mistake it for who they are. Take out their fears and wrong beliefs, and you'll see a beautiful diamond in them. At their core, wether they want it or not, they are part of Counsciousness. (We're all children of God is another way to say it
).
It's not about accepting what they do, it's about recognizing that what they do does not come from who they really are. The best way to change what they do is to wake them up .