Possably, you are not in alignment for a realtionship, at this time, and so you need to clean up the many, OTHER areas of your life, before you can share, to the degree, neccesary for the depth of relationship you might have in mind, with this girl, or any other. This girl might be heavy on your mind, because she did seem to have some elements of congriency, similar to your desires, but is not, really the end all, of what is, and isn't in total alignment with you, so, perhaps you could just work on you, and the other areas of your life, and see what happens down the road.
You may include in your intention, that the feelings between you, and this girl, soften, and intend that she also, finds direction she needs, whether it be towards you or not, but that she carry no heavy baggage, from her experience with you, into her future.
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