I used to be like you, I'm sorry for how you are feeling.
If it helps, the way I got out of that rut was just realizing that if no one is going to respect me, the I just have to learn to be friends with myself.
So I went through a stage of no ego, didn't care what people thought of me, only did things that benefited me.
Then people started liking me, I became more self-confident, and I was a lot more balanced, but it didn't matterbecause all that mattered was being true to myself. Like Steve said, don't try to be like everyone (normal). It gets you nowhere. But also don't strive to be wierd and different just to get attention or something. Be true to yourself. "Throw out dumb labels like normal, just start inside yourself. No one else is going to change the way you think about yourself. |