Perhaps a good deal of your hurt is also based in rejection?
You say that his heart is not broken like yours - it's very hard when someone has "moved on" before you.
A broken heart isn't just about losing someone you love - it's about rejection, about losing the dream, feelings of personal failure, etc.. About 80% of it is actually based upon your own state of mind. The other 20% - time takes care of.
So, yes, absolutely, you can heal from a broken heart. How long it takes, and how well you heal, is truly in your own hands.
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