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Originally Posted by Zen Diva  I'm just curious can you heal from a broken heart? I had my heart broken 7mnths ago after ending 13yr. relationship. 7mnths later my heart hurts soo bad, I try and forget about him I just find it sooo hard. I know his heart is not broken like mine is. I just wonder if the heart can ever truly heal itself from be broken.  |
Short answer, yes you can. The hardest part is to stop focusing on the loss. It's hard to explain, but if you focus on gaining something else, the loss will not hurt as much. It doesn't have to be a new relationship, but any positive momentum in your life will make you feel better.
A lot of people try to find someone else after a relationship ends when they are a mess, and they are mostly unattractive to others because they are a mess. Not visually, but emotionally. It might be better to focus on something totally different, like work on your spiritual life, physical life, financial life, career life, etc. for a while and as you develop those areas your confidence will grow and your emotional stability will grow and you will become attractive to a lot of people.
Don't make the mistake of putting everything else in your life on hold until you find someone else.
That would be my two cents.