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ciarac · 05-21-2008, 10:40 AM

Hi,
Thanks for all your great answers.
I agree that, for me, the deadline just causes stress, and I should leave that part out, at least until I get a little more experienced and confident about manifesting.

Wellbeing: What you say is quite true. I want the apartment, not the money. I want money, yes, but I want a place where I can really feel like I have what I deserve (space, a nice little terrace, interesting furniture and decorations: all very possible in Barcelona).

I think though, the real reason that I set that amount of money is so that I will be able to justify it to my boyfriend. As my income is not so high right now, I fear that he will think that I am (yet again) being irresponsible about money. So, I guess I want to be able to say to him "look, I have enough money".

But in reality, that's not a good way to think, I know that. And also, in regards to money, I don't just want 5,000 euro, I want a permanent increase in money. I had been torn between focusing on that amount I want each week, and the 5,000 just for the apartment. So, I think the best thing to do is to focus on the apartment, and that amount I want each week, and forgetting about the 5,000 euros along with its deadline.

05-21-2008, 10:40 AM	#7 (permalink)
ciarac Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 72	Hi, Thanks for all your great answers. I agree that, for me, the deadline just causes stress, and I should leave that part out, at least until I get a little more experienced and confident about manifesting. Wellbeing: What you say is quite true. I want the apartment, not the money. I want money, yes, but I want a place where I can really feel like I have what I deserve (space, a nice little terrace, interesting furniture and decorations: all very possible in Barcelona). I think though, the real reason that I set that amount of money is so that I will be able to justify it to my boyfriend. As my income is not so high right now, I fear that he will think that I am (yet again) being irresponsible about money. So, I guess I want to be able to say to him "look, I have enough money". But in reality, that's not a good way to think, I know that. And also, in regards to money, I don't just want 5,000 euro, I want a permanent increase in money. I had been torn between focusing on that amount I want each week, and the 5,000 just for the apartment. So, I think the best thing to do is to focus on the apartment, and that amount I want each week, and forgetting about the 5,000 euros along with its deadline.