Yup it is an awesome program. Tim's speech in RSD Transformations is really great too. All the theory you need for pickup is in Transformations and Blueprint I think. The rest is applying.
I've been through the Blueprint twice. Here is my 'summary' of the good points.
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The number one rule: Have fun.
Entertain yourself - use self-amusement
It's all in your head
Be the sex worthy guy
Most sticking points auto-correct when you go out and approach and be social.
The only criterion of a good night: A good night is any night when you gain more reference experiences.
Tactics are a shell over your identity.
Your ego is also a shell over your true core self. (deeper)
Value is a magnet
OWN YOURSELF. LIVE UP TO YOUR STANDARDS.
Who you are is always broadcasting out. THE SELF IS ALWAYS COMING THROUGH.
Outside your head symptoms:
Enjoying yourself
acting in your moment
letting your real personality come out
saying what's on your mind
being unaffected from how other people react
being detached from the outcome from any one particular interaction
taking things as they come!
being fully present to what's going on around you
expecting that everyone is your friend
Two qualities you want to cultivate:
Non resistance - acceptance
Right action
Stay with social tension and avoid going into your head.
Be UNREACTIVE BUT EXPRESSIVE AND UNSTIFLED
BE SELF-POSSESSED
Any type of superficial nonsense - any limitation - money, physical limitations, racial background is completely arbitrary - IT'S NO BIG DEAL - how big a deal it is ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.
Hoobie: WHY SHOULD I PUT MORE LIMITATIONS ON ME when other people already are?
DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?
WILL OTHER PEOPLE ENJOY BEING WITH YOU?
Coming into Power
NOT BEING STUCK IN YOUR HEAD, NOT SHELTERING YOURSELF IN EXISTING ASSUMPTIONS AND BELIEFS AND BE IN THE MOMENT.
Have these Beliefs:
WHAT YOU SAY IS VALUABLE PURELY BECAUSE IT COMES FROM YOU.
WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY IS INTERESTING NOT BECAUSE OF THE CONTENT BUT BECAUSE IT'S BECAUSE YOU FIND IT INTERESTING.
4 Pillars of Reality
Who you are.
What your values are.
Personal Boundaries
How people should act around you?
Only three thoughts are allowed when approaching:
OH LET'S SEE IF SHE'S COOL
LET'S EXPAND OUT THIS PARTY
LET'S ASK HER A QUESTION
CORE CONFIDENCE + STRONG REALITY+ ACTING THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS + MASCULINE POLARITY + BEING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT = WALKING THROUGH THE WORLD WITH EASE.
If you act with 100% belief then whatever you are doing will work.
Two bearings to trust:
1. GIRLS CAN LIKE YOU JUST FOR YOU. Being in the moment. Just allowing.
2. BELIEF THAT AND TOTAL INTERNALISATION THAT SEX IS A NATURAL CONSEQUENCE OF CHEMISTRY AND INEVITABILITY
Providing value: Being centered is providing value. Having masculine polarity around a girl is providing value. Girls in general enjoy sex more than men, so having sex is also providing value.
Taking value: Self seeking in other people's responses to you.
DRAW STATE FROM WITHIN. A man draws state from within. A woman draws state from the environment.
THE SWAGGER - SING THE UNSTIFLED SONG.
Unstifle yourself with voice exercises.
Project your voice from the diaphragm.
Masculine polarity
It is total trust in your faculties:
ACTING ONLY THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS.
BEING ENTIRELY UNCONTROLLABLE AND ABOVE MANIPULATION
DICTATING YOUR REALITY AROUND YOU RATHER THAN BEING AFFECTED BY IT
BEING IN THE MOMENT AND WALKING THROUGH THE WORLD WITH EASE
HAVING ABSOLUTELY NO INTIMIDATION OF THE GIRL OR THE WORLD WHATSOEVER
TAPPING INTO THE ENERGY INSIDE YOU NOT AROUND YOU AS THE SOURCE OF YOUR MOOD.
FEELING NO SPIKES OR LOW-ESTEEM FROM GIRLS REJECTING YOU - YOU MIGHT LOSE ATTRACTION BUT IT SHOULD NOT AFFECT YOUR SENSE OF WHO YOU ARE.
Tolle:
The happiness payoff you get from the result is never as good as the doing.
HAPPINESS IS ALL THE SAME - The doing should make you happy.
Do not project your happiness into the future - the Now is all there ever is.
When you are not in the moment:
Observe/stalk yourself. Become self-possessed.
Be highly alert and aware.
Feel your inner body, take rhythmic conscious deep breaths. Breathe diaphragmatically.
The ego creates a black hole of neediness. It needs recognition and is constantly trying to strengthen the self. The ego is based on separation. It wants to be right all the time, to stand out to reinforce the self among the whole.
Be aware of ego, then eventually go beyond it.
YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO LAUGH AT YOURSELF AND NOT TAKE YOUR 'PUA' IDENTITY SERIOUSLY.
*Authenticity*:
Have integrity. Love yourself. Have compassion. Communicate from your higher selves. People will open up to you.
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