Sounds like you're young. In that case, it's entirely normal to have a high sex drive. I'm an older returning student and am amazed at the young women here. Most of them are straight out of high school and a lot don't seem to have any sense of ?? -- I'm not quite sure how to say it, but they're dressing in clothes that leave very little to the imagination - sometimes not at all and they tend to act in ways that draw a lot of attention (and not necessarily in a scholarly way). It's almost as if their self-esteem is wrapped up in getting attention. This is a 2 year college and most go on to a 4 year university so I'm not seeing the other end of the spectrum where these girls mature.
Again, it's normal to have a high sex drive at your age and in your situation. What's not normal is the guilt. Also, you say it wastes your time? I'm wondering just how much time you spend with this. An alternative you might want to consider is the Five Tibetan Rejuvenation Rites. Don't bother buying a book - this website explains it very well:
The sixth exercise is what you will be interested in but be sure to read the entire site.
Personally I believe that sexual urges are a very important part of life and hardwired into all of us as a way to continue the species. Doesn't mean it has to take over your life, but it also doesn't mean that you're an evil person like some religions would have you believe.
Best of luck.
Last edited by kahless; 12-04-2006 at 02:52 PM.
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