Actually, there were a few posts out there that this was aimed towards. One was "Masturbation: world's slowest learner", but even more so was the "husband rather look at porn than me". I do feel sorry for her struggle with her sex life. The images that her husband is masturbating to is probably distorting his perception of true beauty. That's only one underlying evil that most look over about pornography. Those that have done it for years begin to ask themselves, subconcious or not, why have sex with this woman that truly loves me and wants to be with me, when there is a TOTAL BABE on Skinimax!!
Tasaio mentioned spicy novels. In my opinion, these are excellent because they wont hurt the way you perceive physical beauty. The novels allows you to imagine each character and explore your sexually creative side. Especially if you decided to write one.
After a while, I will have wet dreams also, but I perfer them greatly compared to the old do-it-myselfer. It actually feels like I'm having sex in the dream and I wake up in the greatest mood of my life. lol  |