I love your ten rules, yossarian! Very funny
Originally Posted by cylon
Women, in my experience, and in the experience of men I know, do not generally find themselves attracted to effeminate men.
This highly depends on what you call "effeminate". If you mean wussy "nice guys", that's true. (but yossarian is obviously not one of them, see) If you mean men with high feminine energy, that's not true.
Of course, if you are more feminine and passive, and find a woman who is more masculine and will lead you, then you may have a fit.
I find it very funny how for you feminine = passive and masculine = leading. This is far from being generally the case.
Often times people will say "just be yourself!" but realize it's learning to be your BEST self is what matters. If "yourself" is doubting, unsure, insecure, then being "yourself" is not much benefit.
Again, why are you equating "feminine" with "doubting, unsure, insecure"? A man can be very "feminine", and not resonate with Steve's post, and still be very confident and comfortable with himself.
Just because you cylon were a wussy "nice guy" in the past and now have found another way of being that makes you feel better doesn't mean that everybody who doesn't follow the same path is not ok just like he is.