Originally Posted by yossarian
Perhaps some men were just meant to find joy that is independent of circumstance?
The paradox of the PUA community is that they constantly exclaim how "if you try, you fail" and yet the whole community exists because people are desperately trying. Someone like me who doesn't strive to attain but rather strives for genuine unconditional love also "fails" or at least it appears so.
If you believe in LoA, then you believe that your beliefs create your reality. I suggest working on your belief system rather than within it. Steve has written and spoken about this.
If you hold the above beliefs, it is obviously going to be a part of your reality. You might want to dump some of those and create more empowering beliefs and then your Reality will shift in order to accommodate your new view of yourself and your life. Hope this helps.