Rose of Cairo- it is nice to hear that I'm not the only one who feels it is more difficult to be friends with women!
Sometimes I think I use men's generic attraction and willingness to pursue to be lazy about creating relationships of any kind. Also for me I am attracted to some women sometimes, I figure I'd be happy to try dating a woman if things worked out that way, though generally I think I'm attracted to a larger percentage of guys than girls- I'm only attracted to particular ones- who actually usually look quite a bit like myself so maybe it's just a narcissistic thing... Yet it's funny, the ones I'm attracted to are usually the ones I feel most comfortable relating to, and the ones I'm not-at-all attracted to are the ones that get me most flustered and anxious.
RockChick- yea sorry for not replying to the PM- I sort of come and go from these boards and didn't see your reply 'till quite a bit of time had passed- and then I feel just soooo awkward and say nothing rather than reply... which is maybe part of my problem?
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