Maybe it is that women tend to be emotional vampires- not entirely a negative thing. To really get along with another woman, you must almost give a part of yourself to them. Eventually over time as the relationship develops more deeply these things come up. They want a piece of your heart underneath it all, through any means possible but they won't tell you that, they won't let you know that it is a long lost desire that propels certain women to look to the core of another woman for satisfaction. It is not a lesbian thing, even though that gets trickier but its more like a divine revelation. I find that women want an ultimate connection more so then men, maybe because of our collective loss in a world that still is male dominated-patriarchy...But men don't make us feel so emeshned, and this yin yang polarity is consistent enough to allow even women a dualistic swing to how they apply thier feelings. This I see as off balance with women, going back to the loss thing. This all can be so bipolar if you think about it. I recommend taking a bolder stand and start asking for what you want out front, maybe that will push back the fangs a bit and things will unravel as they naturally should....
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