Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo
If you're in fact talking about energies, then please talk about energies, and let the biological gender out of there. Using it as a criterion is disempowering and limiting, especially for those whose energetical gender doesn't match their biological one. A guy with dominant female energy would have a hard time living like this. However, he is neither automatically gay, nor a wimp.
I'm pretty sure this would be me.
According to the list, I'm basically 3/10ths manly
Having said that, people have called me overly masculine before. Women at times have called me an insensitive jerk, emotionally distant, uncaring and selfish, stuff like that. The irony is that these insults have always cut me deeply
Men have often called me a *****, a fag, stuff like that. Sometimes they don't even mean it as an insult! This one guy I worked with used to honestly asked me, "Why are you such a ♥♥♥♥♥?" and all I could really do is answer, "I'm so sorry, I have no idea." I honestly believe he didn't mean it as an insult, I think I was just an enigma to him. He would look at me and tilt his head like I was some kind of strange creature from the sea that he was trying to identify.
So men call me too girly, and women call me too manly.