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Originally Posted by jaamkie  I get flustered around women as if I were a guy wanting to date them or something... |
Haha, I can totally relate to that!
Same here.
I guess I'm pretty "masculine" too, most of my friends are male, and I generally feel totally comfortable with men, no matter if it's about friendship, romance, sex, just being pals, talking about deep stuff or small talk. I kinda feel "at home" with guys.
With women, I tend to get nervous and intimidated. I do have some female friends, but winning a woman over is a big thing for me. Just like you said, I feel like I'm trying to date them, even though it's not the case. I don't really know how to make friends with them in a natural way. When I tell them that I love them, or ask them out for a coffee, I always hope they won't think I'm trying to pick them up, and am VERY happy and relieved when they say yes. Whereas the same with a guy is just no biggie.
I don't know why it's this way.
Hmmm... I'm being completely sexist
Sorry.