Thanks for having the courage to comment, songwriter.
I disagree that a real man attitude is a turn off to a real woman--perhaps you're thinking real women are only interested in an Alan Alda, super sensitive type?
The truth is, I think women today are on different terrain than what's been available in previous generations. We're not willing to stay in a limited, traditional role; but we're not really interested in stepping into a traditional man's role where the prize is that we can apply the "liberated" label to ourselves. I guess a "real woman" is someone who's willing to see sculpting her presence in the world as worthwhile endeavor.