Ahhh, exactly. When I was tlaking about not deserving stuff, guilt and shame is indeed what you feel when you feel you didn't deserve something.
And Paul's right. Even if its the thought that someone else deserves this more, that assumes there's a limited amount of x (money, recognition, etc) and they SHOULD get it.
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