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Originally Posted by robc  I'll agree with you, it did strike a "personal chord" with me concerning situations with friends. I have seen 2 marriages where one of the partners cheated and it led to ugly divorces, one of these couples had 3 kids, the other had 2. All young, all very much hurt by this action. The spouses that were cheated on were very hurt, betrayed, angry and are in a situation in their lives where they feel that they've wasted a major portion of their lives and have to start new again which is not very easy when they've invested so much time in their marriage. |
It's sad to hear that.
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Originally Posted by robc However in your original post, you said that it was because he hadn't married her after engaging her and this is why she probably ended up cheating on him. Since you called me on my assumption, I'll call you on your assumption.
Is that how it works? Get engaged but don't follow through with the actual marriage so cheating is fair game? |
I'm not going to try to untangle what you think you understood, from the tanglement that I think I expressed.
So I'll try and express it again, different this time.
drazhar got engaged with her, and she cheated on him.
Then he kept on being engaged to her.
HELL YES IT'S HIS FAULT.
Right then and there he had to stop accepting that into his life.
Because he accepted it, it continued.
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Originally Posted by robc Is that how it works? Get engaged but don't follow through with the actual marriage so cheating is fair game? |
I dunno man.
You have to figure out that one for us.
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Originally Posted by robc Cheating is never a fair option, that's why it's called cheating. Your post makes it sound like a viable option and it never is. |
I believe everything in the universe is "fair".
My post making it sound like a viable option?
I said
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Originally Posted by Perfect Sunday If she is neither, just break up with her, and get her stuff out of your new room. |
What do you want? To tell him to stuff Listerine inside her eye drops bottles?
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Originally Posted by robc However since your post made it sound like your defending cheating, why don't you explain to us why cheating is fair and how it can be used to enhance a relationship and bring 2 people closer together? |
Don't be silly.
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Originally Posted by robc When you make it back to earth, and have a minute, reply back. |
Thanks for the kind words.
I think I've stated my point here.
Let me know anything else.
Thanks for keeping the discussion civil.
Best wishes to you robc!