 Perfect Sunday lives...
Punctuation & spelling aren't really requirements in on-line forums.
I have never cheated or have been cheated on in my relationship, thank you for asking. I appreciate your interest & concern.
If that's your style go with it, I think my stuff is easy enough to read.
I think you understood everything I had to say pretty easily.
As for your name, copy & paste worked well for me, so don't give me all the credit.
Getting back to the topic at hand...
I'll give you a point for that maturity argument of yours, it would be nice to assume that adults are mature, I guess that is a poor assumption.
I'll agree with you, it did strike a "personal chord" with me concerning situations with friends. I have seen 2 marriages where one of the partners cheated and it led to ugly divorces, one of these couples had 3 kids, the other had 2. All young, all very much hurt by this action. The spouses that were cheated on were very hurt, betrayed, angry and are in a situation in their lives where they feel that they've wasted a major portion of their lives and have to start new again which is not very easy when they've invested so much time in their marriage.
Thankfully there are no kids in this situation.
However in your original post, you said that it was because he hadn't married her after engaging her and this is why she probably ended up cheating on him. Since you called me on my assumption, I'll call you on your assumption.
Is that how it works? Get engaged but don't follow through with the actual marriage so cheating is fair game?
Cheating is never a fair option, that's why it's called cheating. Your post makes it sound like a viable option and it never is.
However since your post made it sound like your defending cheating, why don't you explain to us why cheating is fair and how it can be used to enhance a relationship and bring 2 people closer together?
When you make it back to earth, and have a minute, reply back.  |