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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  I've been doing that for the last few years,actually. But then people say to me,"you have to look for love,you cant sit back acting like you already have it or you wont see it when you find it!" So then i thought well there is truth to that. If i went out amongst a bunch of new people thinking i didnt need to find anyone cuz i already had him,i wouldn't even be open to meeting new people and i couldn't look or think about it. So it seems kind of like putting up a wall. |
I was thinking about this as I was working tonight.
There were times where I really wanted someone in my life. But it seemed that no matter what I did, I couldn't get with anyone.
At some point, I would just give up and decide I was fine on my own and accepted things as they were. Without fail, as soon as I stopped searching, I'd start meeting all these women who were attracted to me. It's a weird little paradox. And I'm no Casanova, by the way.
What I'm saying is be content with what you got. Because the truth is, you already have everything. Contentment is what breeds abundance.
So, I totally disagree with your friends. Think about when a guy wants something from you. Is that attractive? What about a guy who seems content with himself and just likes hanging out with you?
Really, what's more attractive to you?