I don't want to discuss the moral rights and wrongs of anything. What I want to suggest is the potential of learning to attract the most beautiful women as a fast-track pathwat to IMMENSE personal growth. Whatever the perception of players may be, the seduction community's outlook is that mastery of social dynamics is a path to self actualization
and vice versa. Being a "player" to get laid or find that "perfect girl" (as Hollywood would want us to do
) is where it begins. But most of the people who become true masters (like expert performers in all fields) come from a place of suffering that motivates them forward to take massive action that eventually leads to something beautiful.
See, becoming a master of social skills and seduction is fantastic when done as an ART. I'm talking about personal development through attaining a level where you go far beyond satisfying a need for sex and emotional connections with women. Needless to say, after devoting yourself to improvement in this area will result in that, along with dazzling self-presentation and social skills which will provide you with masterful powers of influence but that is just an added bonus. Like with bodybuilding, it is not
neccessary to grow bigger muscles beyond a certain point but you do because it has an intrinsic value to you. A "player" goes out to satisfy his needs and a beginning bodybuilder works out to look good. But pursuit of excellence goes far beyond satisfying needs and the joy of the pursuit is intrinsic to all art- including all sports, academic greatness, music, martial arts, business...
However, I believe that the art of socialising is one of the most rewarding to devote yourself, because while some arts will lead to a neglection of some needs, this demands a well rounded character. Good health is imperative, and an exciting career never hurt a man's chances. Basically this requires developing every aspect of who you are to achieve success-
strength of character
self esteem
confidence
personal standards
emotional maturity
an attitude of abundance
and yes, even spirituality
With this you're going to also need vital life skills such as decision making, creativity, individuality, spontaneity, adaptabilty, resourcefulness, time management, courage to act in the face of anxiety, and discipline and determination to handle set backs. I used to be heavily into development through this but I lost motivation after achieving a certain degree of success. The problem stemmed from becoming to results orientated rather than focussing on becoming better. At the heart of it all is the ability to separate results from your estimation of who you are. It's a realisation that what matters most isn't where you are but the direction you're facing --> towards the horizon of GROWTH. Now I recognise this I am going to take this to a whole new level and I invite other men to do the same. The only qualification you need is to not be TOO good looking because that takes away some of the fun!
