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Originally Posted by Blueguy  Why do you want to be a player? A player is not a good thing. Instead of obsessing over sex, why not focus on the more important aspects in your life? Like finding a girlfriend you can get along with who makes you feel great. Then you can focus on the sex. |
From "a Player's" point of view:
How the heck is he supposed to find a girlfriend if he doesn't have the balls to go talk with her?
Or, how will he ask her for her number, if he has trouble breathing while near her?
How would he approach a group of girls, and introduce himself, if he's sweating cold and shivering from the nervousness?
Yes people... there ARE guys like that out there.
I see them all the time.
I don't coach them, but I help them.
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Originally Posted by Jennihul Blue makes an excellent point. While sex may seem like it makes the world go round at a certain point in your life, or at a certain age, it's really ego trying to get you to ignore the things that will make you a better person, grow you and subsequently need less of him. Ego that is. |
I agree with you that sex can be the center of one's life, at a certain age, yet I do believe that sex makes the world go round.
No sex, no more humans!
It's normal to want to hook-up with the hot twins... or the successful, charming guy.
Curious, but my "drive for sex" has made me improve leaps and bounds in terms of my character, personal effectiveness, business life, relationships, and my integrity as a man.