All the best love in the world to you "robc".
With that, here's my reply::
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc  To date they've been engaged for 2 years, she cheated on him first in Feb 2007 which would mean they were engaged maybe for a year at that point. |
Lost me in the math.
What's your point with it?
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc Do you really think a cheating partner has justification for their action because they aren't married yet? |
Nope.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc That's as low as you can go. |
I assure you, we can go much lower.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc If you are mature and I'm assuming you are mature if you want to get married, accept an engagement ring which means that you've accepted the proposal and want to get married and then cheat on your fiance, how is that his fault? |
This is going to be a fun one...
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc If you are mature |
Big if.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc I'm assuming you are mature if you want to get married, |
Assumption is the mother of all fSckups.
So, tell me... you are NOT mature, nor can you BE mature, if you do not "want to get married"?
How would you define "mature"?
Wanting to get married?
So, by the same token, if I go out there, get married, I'm mature.
So I get divorced, and married again, I'm mature-plus-two?
Three wifes,
triple the maturity?!?!?!!!
I don't think that's what God had in mind...
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc If you are mature and I'm assuming you are mature if you want to get married, accept an engagement ring which means that you've accepted the proposal and want to get married and then cheat on your fiance, how is that his fault? |
For the life of me, I can't make sense of your paragraph.
The lack of comas, punctuations, and a coherent thought-pattern hurts my eyes.
No, really. I do not understand.
Married... engagement ring... maturity... married... WTF?
I have read it like 38 times, and:::
I think --> that YOU think --> that *I* think, that it's drahzar's fault.
I did not state that.
I said that I did not blame her.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc how is that his fault? |
I dunno.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc We are all responsible for our own actions. |
Agreed.
('cept small puppies)
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc When we do something to hurt our partner, specifically cheating on them as in this example, the only person at fault is the person who is sleeping around. |
There's a quote from The 7 Habits that changed my life:
It isn't what happens to you that hurts you, it's how you react to what happens to you that hurts you.
In recollection, I do believe now that drahzar IS at fault, in part.
He has "agreed" to accept this behaviour from her.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc You always have the choice to return the engagement ring, break off the engagement and go your separate way. |
A-HA!!!
So you *DO* understand!!!
It's a CHOICE!
You ALWAYS HAVE THE CHOICE!!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc That would be the mature & adult thing to do. |
Not everybody is "mature".
Not everybody is "adult".
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc Remaining engaged and cheating on your partner is an immature & destructive thing to do and a total relationship killer. |
What about
:
Remaining engaged, and
getting cheated on by your partner, is an immature & destructive thing to do, and a total relationship killer.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc Don't blame your actions on what someone else has done or not done. You did what you did and you are responsible for that action. Blaming the cheating because they haven't been married yet after 2 years of engagement (and technically maybe only 1 year when she first cheated on him) is just brainless. |
Something tells me this is striking a
personal chord with you...
Were you engaged? Married? 2 years? Got cheated on?
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc Perfect Sunday, What planet do you live on |
Why, this isn't Quanta13 ?!
I'll be damned....
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc Perfect Sunday, What planet do you live on where you can justify your crap behavior like cheating because your partner hasn't married you yet? |
"justify".
Do you think you can "justify" anything in this life?
The Doors of Perception.
Quote:
Originally Posted by robc I thought I heard everything until I read your post. Unreal!!!  |
Welcome to the internet.
Buckle up... it's gonna get bumpy.
PS: Thank you for spelling my name in both capital letters.