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Originally Posted by metamorph  I am fully accepting how they are and do not need or want to change them. I live my life and they live theirs. We do not even live in the same country. But I realise just how similar I was to them, when it comes to limiting beliefs. And I realise how much it has given me to become unchained from these beliefs. So I would feel bad if I would not give something back to them and let them enjoy the same relief when this burden of limiting beliefs is lifted. It is not that they have to change, I want to give them this opportunity. If they are not receptive to it, it is perfectly fine. I am not going to sulk or be dissappointed or something. Why can such impulses not come from me,who is closest to them both in terms of relationship and psychology. |
Read my earlier post. I really think that being around them and not reacting when they hit your triggers makes them truly think about what they're doing to you and causes a major shift in their thinking. I've seen it. I've accomplished the impossible with my parents. Our relationship is totally different now.