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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  This must be where i go wrong. Because every night when i go to bed,i create a movie,or a story in my head,of the kind of man i want to be with. So i'm imagining that we ARE together. I guess thats the wrong way to go about it,i should only think of it once then never again. But i have heard the opposite,that the more you focus on something,the more it will come. That's why i was so confused with the LoA,there was too many specifics but also conflicting rules,i didnt know what to do. But with Tolle's book,what i've read so far,its just a way of thinking,not specific rules you have to follow. |
In my experience it is about your state of being. If you desire a large sum of money for instance, you adopt or accept wealth as your state of being.
If you ARE WEALTHy then you no longer desire/want/need money, so it isn't just about stopping yourself from thinking about it - it is about becoming wealthy inside yourself, or inhabiting that state of being.
If you desire perfect health, you must inhabit that state of being - which means that you believe and accept yourself as being that which you desire - and that is what leads to not thinking of it, it is no longer necessary to think about, obsess over, or cling to a desire for what you already are.