I just read 2 "how to be women articles" too. Interesting to note that the articles seem to (me) to be about how to be a man, not a woman, or how to me a woman, not a man. I would have no problem with how to be a man, not a boy or somesuch. Like, how to be a mature person living consciously. Instead I see again some polarity thing, putting male and female against each other and far from each other. Sorry, no vote from me. At least it seems I do have a few allies so all is well.
