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Originally Posted by carenkh  Ummm... I do! I don't know where the thought that "size doesn't matter" began making the rounds, because it does make a difference. To me. And most other women I know.
I will say - I have been with two different men with very small penises. One man told me before we got naked, just as a "letting you know" thing, when it became obvious we'd be getting intimate. He had developed his love-making skills so he compensated in other ways; he was very sensual. We freely used toys (that, of course, were larger than him!) He had a lot of self-confidence and a wonderful sense of play.
The second man never mentioned it, and acted shy about me seeing his naked body. He was obviously very ashamed, and "got things over with" as quickly as possible, despite my trying to slow things down. The whole experience was very, very dissatisfying.
Guess which guy I wanted to see again? Your penis isn't the problem here, it's your attitude about it. |
You say it does make a difference to you (penis size) but then you said that the guy you wanted to see again was short-changed in that area but you still wanted to be with him because he was very sensual, lots of self-confidence and a wonderful sense of play.
If it really made a difference to you, why would you want to be intimate again with the guy that was "small". It sounds as if your needs were still fulfilled despite his lacking in size, so it sounds to me like it didn't really make a difference to you.
Thought I would mention it because your statements were a "little" (pardon the pun
) contra dic tory.
