Spartan, I see a lot of my former self in you. The two points you post above are a noble place to start from a logical perspective and I don't disagree. On a practical level however, those points probably aren't really going to get you far. It's not that they are or are not right, it's that they really don't matter. I know you will disagree and that's cool. When I was like you and nobody on the planet could reason with me. So I won't try to argue with you. I'm terrible at arguing anyway. You win
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If I started seeing a girl and she wouldn't have sex after I saw her a couple of times I would not invest further time in her. Aside from enjoying sex and enjoying women that enjoy sex, I have many reasons for this approach.
There are many reasons she might want to wait until down the road. I respect that. It's not what I'm looking for though.
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I read on another forum that relationships between men and women have become egalitarian rather than complimentary. I think this is a good observation. I feel egalitarian is considered PC while complimentary is often considered sexist, playing to stereotype, even slightly taboo. That's too bad.
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I think Steve's article is a great start and am interested to read "How to Be a Woman".
- CT