Another vote of confidence for Eckhart Tolle here. I'm finding his material helps me to 'rise above' old conditioning and concerns, and is a fantastic help in getting past any social anxiety, and to a place of centredness and balance. Also there's a compassionate indifference (of other people), if that's the best way to describe it? It doesn't matter so much what other people think, do, or say to me; it makes no difference to my inner core being. The more I find myself in that place, the more playful and fun I can be.
Look forward to TBPD appreciation thread. Am hestiant to give it a whirl, what would my friends and family say if I turned in to a womanising love monster ...