[Rafael Perez]

I would suggest, not bringing it up. But when you hear the negative comments, if you do not agree then don't. Do not be afraid of what they may think and do not do it in anger.

You sound like you are at a higher sense of awareness but are still blaming someone else for your reality. It was your reality, you create it. They are still stuck in their reality that limits them.

Have fun with this new awareness and take control of situations like this and see them as opportunities to define who you are in the face of adversity.

Just be yourself every moment of every day.

By the way there is no such thing as should have... it happened already, what is the point in saying you should have done something if you can't change it. there is no point other than getting some type of self satisfaction out of it... and that could just be mean.

So speak the truth in love, be yourself and have fun defining who you are through your new awareness.