So, after all the *shoulds* from your parents, and all the suffering it left you with, you think *shoulding* them is going to "help" anybody?
"You shouldn't have shoulded me! You shouldn't have moaned about my diet. You should understand the psychological impact you had on your child! You shouldn't have "made" me suffer (but don't worry, I'm recovered now.) You should open your eyes and get over your indwelling fears. You should acknowledge that you made mistakes."
That's an awful lot of *shoulding* for someone who is free of resentment, don't you think?
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