Of course, you might also be thinking, "But that will cause him to be/do those things, and I'll be creating a future without him".
Yes, this is potentially true -- if you did it for a long enough time period. But don't do it forever, and keep it at, for example, a 1:3 bad-to-good ratio. You're just trying to get your brain to neutralize the uber-crush-drug, not stomp out the attraction. |