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The answer to all three of your problems comes down to motivation. If you're not motivated to do something (develop your games, socialise with friends, stay awake) then either:

1. They are the wrong goals for you; or
2. You have not identified a good enough reason for doing them.

For each of your problems, consider firstly why you want to do it. Write down the reasons. How will you feel once you've done it? How will it change your life? How might it affect other people or things in your life? Secondly, consider the consequences of not doing it. What might happen to you if you don't do it? What are you missing out on?

Then, take a look through your reasons. If you still don't feel motivated then as I said, you've either not given yourself a good enough reason for doing it or your goal is simply not right for you.

Success is 80% why and 20% how. If you give youself a compelling enough "why" you'll find a "how".