[Rafael Perez]

You do not live in your fathers shadow. If he decides h wants to fund your schooling that's great. You do not owe him anything and he does not owe you, this is his decision. You do what you want to do that makes you happy, after all it is your life and you are the one that has to live with yourself.

Parents usually have this mistaken idea that they know what is best for you. you create your own world. You make your decisions, always be grateful for the help you recieve but do not let any help impact your decision.

Your father makes his decisions based on what his concept of right and wrong is. It doesn't mean that these concepts are yours. You have your own idea of what you want out of life and you will take hold of the opportunity to grow.

You cannot grow for yourself if you are following someone elses expectations of you.

Live your life how you want to live it... discover where your true happiness is.

or live a life full of resentment towards your father for limiting the person you are.